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lawyer, Kane County divorce lawyerWhether or not to hire an attorney to help you end your marriage is always a complicated question. While many young couples without children or significant debt or assets can successfully file for divorce on their own, the majority of divorcing couples would be taking a major risk not hiring an attorney. Although many people are concerned that hiring an attorney will be too expensive, employing the help of an attorney actually increases the chances you will save money on child support, spousal maintenance, and other costs. Hiring an attorney to represent you during your divorce can benefit you in many ways.

Save Time and Frustration

The American legal system is one of the best in the world, but it can be tedious to navigate. Divorces, especially complicated or high net worth cases, can require seemingly endless amounts of paperwork, signatures, meetings, and legwork. Because divorce is often a deeply emotional process, some people find that they are simply unable to handle the added stress of managing the legal aspects of their divorce alone. An experienced family law attorney can help streamline the divorce process, saving you valuable time and resources.

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narcissist, St. Charles family lawyerNearly all of us have moments of selfishness that can affect the health of many of the personal relationships in our lives. It is particularly difficult to live with or be married to a person who is exceptionally self-centered and egotistical. Sometimes, however, an individual may have more going on than just a few unhealthy character traits—he or she may be a pathological narcissist. If you are in the process of getting divorced from a narcissistic spouse, there are some things for you to consider.

The Problem

According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-V), approximately .5 to 1 percent of the adult population has been diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, or NPD. Up to three-quarters of those are men. Experts believe that tens of thousands of additional cases of NPD go undiagnosed.

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young, Kane County divorce lawyersWhile it might sound silly to say, there is no age requirement for getting a divorce—at least not for a legally valid marriage. Most people tend to think of divorce as something that relatively older couples have to contend with, but the possibility of divorce exists for any couple, regardless of age.

It is true that divorces among couples in their 40s, 50s, or beyond may be prompted by midlife crises or empty-nest syndrome, but these are far from the only reasons that a couple may seek a divorce. Younger couples, such as those in their early to mid-20s may pursue a divorce, for example, because they quickly realized that their relationship was not built to last. Instead of suffering through decades of unhappiness, a younger couple may end their marriage sooner than later, leaving the ex-spouses to face a variety of unique difficulties, especially if they have children.

Fitting In

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divorce, Kane County divorce lawyersIf you ask the average person about the percentage of marriages that end in divorce, you will probably get an answer of about 50 percent. For decades, the idea that “half of all marriages end in divorce” has been widely regarded as fact. The reality, however, is that the actual divorce rate has been dropping since it hit a peak in the 1970s and 80s, and it is now thought to be between 30 and 40 percent.

New Divorce Trends

The likelihood of divorce tends to go up with a subsequent remarriage. In other words, those who get married for a second or third time are more likely to end those marriages through divorce than would a person getting married for the first time. Of course, many people who get divorced have no intention of ever getting married again, and it is estimated that about 10 percent of the current U.S. adult population would be classified as divorced. (For the purposes of this discussion, “divorced” does not include anyone who is currently married, even if they got divorced in the past.)

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therapist, St. Charles divorce lawyerAccording to The Holmes-Rahe Stress Inventory, getting a divorce is the second-most stressful event a person can endure. That means that divorce is more stressful than being fired from your job, losing a close family member, being detained in jail, and having a mortgage foreclosed. In fact, the act of ending your marriage through divorce is only second to the death of a spouse in terms of stressfulness. It only follows that a person going through a divorce would need help from others, both in the personal sense and the professional sense. Many people getting divorced find that in addition to a trustworthy family law attorney, a therapist is able to help them better navigate the divorce process.

Benefits to Hiring a Therapist or Other Mental Health Professional

Therapists offer many benefits for people going through life challenges such as a divorce. First, a therapist is a someone who will listen to their patients’ thoughts and opinions without judgement. A therapist is an objective sounding board who will listen intently without interrupting to insert their opinion. While friends and family members can also offer emotional support, they are not usually unbiased. Secondly, a therapist is bound to confidentiality unless he suspects that his client is going to hurt themselves or someone else. This means that you can say deeply personal things to a therapist without the fear of it being repeated or shared with others.

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